At the risk of sounding morbid, when family members die that's exactly what people have to do. I've done five.spending time clearing out the home. It will be a headache of a job. It's a family home for 35 years. Where do you start to pack everything away.
So your mother is much further into this process than your original post suggested.has taken 2 years to get to court
Well there's a vote of confidence from a long term contributor...doubtful that this forum will be of much practical use to you
So your mother is much further into this process than your original post suggested.
In that case you need to start making firm plans.Well there's a vote of confidence from a long term contributor...
Thank you for your lovely reply. Usually when I'm faced with a big problem, I think what is the best case scenario (in this case my mother getting the roof over our heads). Then I think what is the worst case scenario (in this case losing the family home).It is great to hear that you are on good terms with your siblings and that they are there for you. It isn't all on you.
It's doubtful that this forum will be of much practical use to you - but I could be wrong. Where it may be useful is for you to document your own questions/thoughts and perhaps consider any contributions that posters offer up. To this end, this will be useful when you meet your mother's solicitor. Try and document your queries/thoughts before your next appointment so that the meeting will be as productive as possible. The solicitor may have been alarmist in their reference to the house sale but they may not and it is worth querying exactly on what basis this is grounded on and what, if any, are your options.
As Thirsty mentions above, there will be ample time to prepare. Looking at situations in the press like this, it can take a long time to come to a legal resolution, especially regarding a family home, and even more especially when your father hasn't contributed to any material maintenance since the separation.
Mind your mental health and nerves as much as you can. Your health and livelihood come first and second. The rest follow after that.
I think this is unlikely.Maybe something where my mother keeps the family home and pays my father a sum of money every week or something like that.
Any creditor with a charge on the property can force the sale. The bal outstanding on the charges are paid chronologically. If the positive equity in the house does not fully discharge all charges it is the most recently dated charge that loses out.Reading this thread it is not clear where the concern about a forced sale comes from.
Is it that Revenue or your fathers other creditors may try to force a sale to cover his debts. If there is a Revenue judgement against the house it canot be sold with Revenues agreement. Revenue themselves are unlikely to force a sale.
Or is it that in the divorce proceedings the court may order a sale of the home. Again this would AFAIK require Revenue agreement. If neither side of the divorce wants the home sold, why would a court order it.
There is a letter from your mothers solicitor advising that a sale of the home may be a possible outcome. Have you asked the solicitor how that might come about, and what could be done to prevent it.
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