You're taking a very agressive approach Dow? You can not find out about a will now if the man is not dead. Is this a vast sum of money, how many children. It is of no relevance if the man's second family are from a relationship without marriage.
Would you and your siblings not be better off ignoring the second family and getting on with your own lives. Please be aware that the estate might be eaten up in legal costs. That his current children may need an inheritance, particularly if they are young. And that some things are not worth fighting for.
I am making an enquiry, I dont know why you consider it aggressive.
At the time the person in question declined to make any maintenance payments during the course of the childrens upbringing (this would be me and my siblings), other than getting into exactly what happened, as there is so much more than that, Im just not including other specific details as I dont think its really relevant to enquiring about potentially contesting a will.
I am very sure at the time, there was a court order to make maintenance payments, but Im not familiar with how that works, I just know it wasn't followed up because it was felt better to stay away from that person by the person making the decisions at that time.
Regarding the children I am just stating what I know, Im unsure if they are his biological children or not, but they could not be from marriage, not that Im saying thats relevant, Im just mentioning it as I know a divorce wasnt granted till later. I dont think they are significantly younger than us, I have a rough idea of the years, they are also adults now.
Its true, they may need an inheritance now, Im not sure how that need could be any greater than my siblings and I, but I feel we were substantially affected by growing up in poverty, when it didnt have to be the case. As I said, I dont feel the other children have done any wrong, I dont feel animosity towards them, I dont know them, and we have gotten on with our lives. While there was some mention of this with one of my siblings a few years back, it isnt something thats come up with them, but I have considered it.
Im trying to find out, that if there is a will (or even if there isn't) can I or my siblings contest it in the event we are not included and that the other children who may or may not be his biological children are (or even others) when there are assets.
It seems as adults we might not be able, and Im trying to find out if there is a process to contest a will, more so if they are not his biological children, but even if they are, although I think they are. We wouldnt have a lot of money to proceed something like this, and to make it clear, it is not to punish the other children (who are now adults also).
Its probably too specific, I wanted to make an enquiry to see is there a legal process to contest a will under the above circumstances,