Your post is not clear, if you paid a deposit to an SIMI dealer you should have paperwork / contract, If it was private then no, I've sold my own private cars over the years and a deposit is a deposit, I've had calls from people interested in my car after I took a deposit and didn't allow them come view the car as in my opinion myself and the deposit provider had concluded a deal and I had accepted a deposit, I would not give it back if the buyer simply changed their minds which happened once a long time ago.