Separation just came through before xmas(3 years waiting),in process of selling house house worth about €500k, mortgage left of app €158k. proceeds to be divided equally. At present i am struggling financially, paying mortgage(€500pm), rent(€400pm), car loan(€300pm) and credit card(€100 pm)every month. Auctioneer reckons house will sell in about 2 mths,3 months max,i will come out with approx €160k with auctioneers and solicitors fees. Have a baby in new relationship and as eveyone knows money shortages can cause friction, struggling like this for 1.5 yrs.