Hi Guys
Going out 7yrs + (not living together), get on really well, love is unquestionable! have the odd row/argument nothing major. However, I had a lot of issues from childhood - have dealt with them over the years through councelling. My BF has issues also never dealt with - not aware of a lot of them or the effect they have or will have on our relationship, it become very evident if we argue.
We hope to get married in the near future and in order for us to move on I feel these issues need to be addressed.
He has agreeded to go to councelling, agreeing that we dont fully understand all the issues.... but having looked at whats out there Im not sure where we should go .....i.e. ACCORD or independent centre or private - is there a good, better, best......
Or is there another avenue for us .....self help books (I'd say I would have to read them and report back or highlight the important bits!!)
Going out 7yrs + (not living together), get on really well, love is unquestionable! have the odd row/argument nothing major. However, I had a lot of issues from childhood - have dealt with them over the years through councelling. My BF has issues also never dealt with - not aware of a lot of them or the effect they have or will have on our relationship, it become very evident if we argue.
We hope to get married in the near future and in order for us to move on I feel these issues need to be addressed.
He has agreeded to go to councelling, agreeing that we dont fully understand all the issues.... but having looked at whats out there Im not sure where we should go .....i.e. ACCORD or independent centre or private - is there a good, better, best......
Or is there another avenue for us .....self help books (I'd say I would have to read them and report back or highlight the important bits!!)