I'm also living in Kildare and we built an extension last year approx 140 sq ft at total of €25k (€179 per sq ft).
At this stage, I'd wait until spring before beginning work, its a messy job anyway so you don't want the additional burden of cleaning up the muck as well the dust!
The RIAI http://www.riai.ie has a useful (albeit very brief) consumer booklet on building cost guidelines. I know I downloaded it from their website but I cannot now find the link to the relevant page. Anyway, the guideline costs range from €2,250 to €3,300 per square metre, depending on whether it is a basic extension, or if alterations are also required to the existing house
The RIAI will send you a hard copy of the booklet if you call them on 01-6761703