I have a 4.5 year old girl and her list is "Baby Alive" Doll (eats, poos, cries) E60; a dolls head thing that you can put make-up on and do its hair (I got an Ariel one for about E12 in Smiths);an Island Princess Dress - which she is not getting because she already has a couple of similiar items. I'd say at 3.5 years a doll she can play Mum to would be good but I wouldn't spend the E60 that I did unless you really want to ( I did it because her request was very specific for Baby Alive). I would say that anything to do with the Disney princesses (Ariel, Aurora, Jasmine, Cinderella, Snow White) will be a hit. The craft type suggestion is a great one - stars, glitter, a kids sicissors, prittstick, paper, stickers, glitter markers...