sunflower11
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Thanks PC7. They were never married,and its just an agreement and ,not legal. I hear what u are saying about "discussing" it with her...but I can tell you it would more then likely result in her telling the child "daddy doesnt want to give mummy money for you"...so i just wonder is it worth the hassle.
I think you've answered your own question. Worse senario would seem to be if your partner held back the money and this was used as an excuse either not to let the 5 week stay go ahead or in the future to stop similar visits (ie not worth her while as she'd be financially hit for allowing an extended visit happen - but of course she wouldn't as she'd have savings not having the child).
The child maintenance covers things such as accomodation and the provision of transport and utilities for the child as well as food and cloths. The childs mother will not be giving up her home or her car for these few weeks. Also, if you went to court to sort out CS it would be averaged over 12 months and take custody into consideration. So no i do not think you should even suggest cutting payments, at possibly it should be a fraction of the payment. Is it worth that?
The child maintenance covers things such as accomodation and the provision of transport and utilities for the child as well as food and cloths. The childs mother will not be giving up her home or her car for these few weeks. Also, if you went to court to sort out CS it would be averaged over 12 months and take custody into consideration. So no i do not think you should even suggest cutting payments, at possibly it should be a fraction of the payment. Is it worth that?
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