Can neighbour refuse ESB/water/sewage access to my site?

My presumption so far was that all the other houses have septic tanks. OP says his site is small- so he would not have room for a septic tank system as the neighbours.
It would indeed make no sense to dig up all the road for a completely new sewer connection if the other houses already have those connections.
 
Would the creation of a brand new easement be necessary given the long-established legal right of way already in place?
A right-of-way allows you to pass over a piece of land, not dig it up for the placement or maintenance of utilities underneath.
 
Surely the solicitor who handled the site purchase would have flagged this potential issue to you?
The solicitor would have satisfied themselves in regards to access to the site, they would make no assessment on the suitability of the site for a self-contained treatment system amidst ever-increasing standards .
 
I had assumed the same given the time frame suggested, was much easier put a simple tank on a small plot some years back.
Also the reason for the proliferation of one off houses in the country side, alot of these were built in the early 2000s. Another factor about septic tanks that are not widely known is that pollution in rural areas from septic tanks is regarded as agricultural pollution as the council has no way of distinguishing the pollution in the country side. Therefore agriculture gets unfairly blamed for pollution from septic tanks. On the other hand many farmers have sold those sites for those houses
 
It's fair enough to associate elevated levels during slurry spreading season as agricultural run-off but you're right. Nearly half of the septic tanks inspected are failing.
 
It is both- septic tanks and agriculture. Both pollute the water table.
It is always possible to find out if the pollution comes from a septic tank or a slurry spreading farmer. The DNA make-up of human e-coli and e-coli coming from cattle is slightly different. This can be detected with special tests. The tests are quite costly. And the publication of the result is politically not wanted. This way each party still can blame the other side and everyone carries on as before.
 
Take a step back from the issue of ownership and getting permission. Have you considered cost?

If everyone on the lane has a septic tank do you need to create a sewer connection along the full length of the lane all the way to the public road and connect into that? Does the public road definitely have a public sewer? Is it your side or the far side of the public road as in will you have to cross this road to connect. Do you have to go up or down any hills on this laneway? If you have to pump your foul waste which will involve a small holding tank and then pump it up along a very long lane and then build a manhole on a public road to connect into it's going to cost as much as a small house.
 
is always possible to find out if the pollution comes from a septic tank or a slurry spreading farmer. The DNA make-up of human e-coli and e-coli coming from cattle is slightly different. This can be detected with special tests.
Usually the pollution is from nutrient enrichment, too much nutrients not bacterial infection that is only important regarding water for drinking where the water is taken from. a river or lake and that is only a tiny subset of the total water. I remember in Galway there was boil water notices for months regarding water taken from lough corrib. Immediately the blame was put on agriculture but then when the dna testing on the e coli was done it was found to be from sewage release by the councils into the lake and septic tanks as Galway was a big culprit regarding allowing one off houses in country
 
No, the planning merely had what seemed like standard enough wording that I needed to liase/contract with Irish Water re services and that the permission was not related to same yada yada..
Yes, all other houses on the lane have septic tanks but mine would not have enough room for one based on current distance regs etc so it's a pain when the closest connection to all mains is on the other end of the lane to where I am.
 

I know its off topic but respectfully, that's not true at all. You can go to page 7 of this EPA report from 2024 and see it categorises Agriculture and Domestic Wastewater separately.
 
This had already been tried but because it's close to a council estate, 'Bull' was up in arms because he reckoned it would be a free for all for kids hanging around etc.