This is part of my problem, we weren't in arrears at all on either property, we engaged with them before we left home and advised we were going away on temporary work visas. Prior to this we never missed and payments and never had interest only period. It seems to me they are treating us as if we have been in arrears. I'm confused and stressed by it all, I don't want to sign something that forces me to sell when,if I come home when my work visa runs out, I have no home to go to.
Also my first home which is now rented by my son, they have reclassified this as a buy to let, when it never was,we actually lived there for 11 years before moving into our new home, the only reason we still have it is we couldn't get it sold when we moved. As asked before does anyone know if there is any implications to me signing these forms stating the house is a buy to let (when it's not).
Thanks again for all help.