I think they really need to sit down with their solicitor / accountant and talk about what they want, what they should be thinking about, whether they should sell or gift property to family or outsiders, when they should be doing this, what their potential tax liability will be, what is the most tax efficient way of dealing with what they have now/in the future/on death, how they provide for themselves in retirement, how they prevent the breakup of a farm etc.,etc
I'm aware of one situation where a father made primary provision during his lifetime for one son by giving him the family farm. No strings. The rest of the family got an education and a site to build on. The father died, the son sold the farm for many millions, the rest of the family are apoplectic and there is nothing they can do - by and large, ( with some small exceptions) people may do what they wish with their estate.
I do accept that where farmland is concerned that feelings run deep ( witness the recent tragedy in Carlow and the regular court cases about disputes over estates) but I wonder is that on the wane given the move away from farming that seems to be almost inevitable for the farming community?
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