Thanks Emeralds, it's been an emotional roller coaster alright.
Bronte, I've calmed down a bit since I posted. The estate agent told us when he put the offer to us that the buyer had secured funding and was anxious for a quick sale. Contracts had been sent to the buyer's solicitor with all the relevant documents. Closing date was agreed. It wasn't until my solicitor queried the delay that we found out. I don't think that the bank have said no, it appears he is still haggling with them. I know the family may have been a bit premature but I can't blame them really. It's been a very long road and I suppose they got carried away. As regards being an executor it is, as you state a job that brings nothing but grief. I would advise anyone who is asked to say thanks but no thanks.