Oirish, I was particularly interested in your comments 'The one thing we didnt do was tell him how to butter bread or do the design for him'. We are building house and recently went to a recommended house design consultant and having discussed type of house we would like he provided a copy of a design for a house we had done similar. When we looked to make some changes to external windows etc he didnt react too kindly and basically didn't feel we appreciate his particular design. I appreciate he has many years experience but is this usual, I felt as if we breached some etiquette and now perplexed. I would greatly appreciate your comments. Thanks.