Hi,
I am getting married next year and two friends as my bridesmaids. I intend paying for everthing for them for the big day ie dress, shoes, jewellery, tan, bouquets, hair and make uo plus a present for doing the job...
Someone, recently, told me I was mad, that it's just the dress I pay for...they get everthing else themselves.She had her sister as her bridesmaid and I'm thinking maybe her sister simply offered to pay her way.. I thought this was mean but maybe that's the done thing? I find it very hard to believe this and don't think I could ask them to pay for any of the above. We're not "rolling in it" by any means but will save for it all as best we can...
What is the done thing? Generally, I mean.....
Thanks.
I am getting married next year and two friends as my bridesmaids. I intend paying for everthing for them for the big day ie dress, shoes, jewellery, tan, bouquets, hair and make uo plus a present for doing the job...
Someone, recently, told me I was mad, that it's just the dress I pay for...they get everthing else themselves.She had her sister as her bridesmaid and I'm thinking maybe her sister simply offered to pay her way.. I thought this was mean but maybe that's the done thing? I find it very hard to believe this and don't think I could ask them to pay for any of the above. We're not "rolling in it" by any means but will save for it all as best we can...
What is the done thing? Generally, I mean.....
Thanks.