Re: Separate point
CHORD OF SOULS
I have already explained what I was alluding to (ie earlier discussions on the subject of concealing borrowings), there's really nothing intriguing about the construction of the comment. You may seek intrigue, but it doesn't mean you will find it!!
It was a simple, jokey but heartfelt throwaway comment ("….and even after doing that I'll still be 500% more ethical than your average financial institution - don't start me"), one with which I believe most people who deal with Irish financial institutions empathize.
Quite why you feel the need to analyse and re-analyse it I'm not quite sure. Hence my deduction that you must work for such an institution!
"Your post implies that you are aware your own proposed actions are unethical".
LIGHTEN UP, FOR GOD'S SAKE! Just to reassure you: I am 100% certain that I will be able to repay my stamp duty loan along with every other debt I will accrue on the road to purchasing a home. My finances are almost worn away from being analysed by a fine toothcomb! Nobody will be left short by my actions. My conscience is, therefore, clear.
You may actually be intrigued to learn that my mortgage lender has just suggested I borrow my stamp duty from a credit union – he has even advised me on the timing of my loan request and exactly where to go. Looks like we're all playing the same game.
My point about parents….I know very few 25-35 year-olds who are in a position to fully fund the purchase of a new home on their own. Many, like myself, might have enough earnings and savings to cover their deposit and their monthly mortgage repayments, but find the stamp duty a step too far.
I can therefore only assume that the majority of those who find this 'struggle' incomprehensible – or, indeed, regard any 'imaginative' attempts to go it alone, rather than expect their parents to share some of the burden of the debt, as 'unethical' - must be in a position where someone else (most likely a parent) is helping them out. Good for them, my opinion is simply that house buyers shouldn't look for help from their parents, they should stand on their own two feet, as our parents had to.
As to your second post – forgive me, but have you ever attempted to get a mortgage on your own?
ie "If they refuse to lend someone money, it's because they don't believe the person has the ability to repay it."
Nonsense. Are you not aware that most mortgage lenders are only in the business of lending 92% of the cost of a home? That leaves 8% for the buyer to find, plus whatever is the cost of the stamp duty. That is how it works.
I am lucky enough to be able to comfortably afford my mortgage repayments and to put up the deposit for my home. I am also lucky enough to be able to afford to repay a loan for my stamp duty, I just don't have 15,000 spare euro to fund my stamp duty at this moment. As I said before, tragically, I live in the real world!