in this thread poses some interesting questions; basically should it be ok for people with children to leave work if a problem arises with a child during the working day without it impacting negatively on their career prospects and pay etc.diziet - I am only a new mother and I am trying to juggle life. So its not as easy as you make out. You say you have kids, did it not take you a while to adjust?
Maybe in your job, they are more child friendly etc. when I have to leave a meeting because I get a call to collect my baby I get looks from everyone there... Its a case of "here we go again". Like I am making it up.. I see this with SO MANY women in his company and outside of here too. Can I say its mostly coming from Men or from Women who dont have kids.. The men do have kids therefore I really dont understand why they make you feel like this..
You are right I shouldnt feel guilty but I do sometimes, its not that easy to shut off sometiimes.
I think this post; in this thread poses some interesting questions; basically should it be ok for people with children to leave work if a problem arises with a child during the working day without it impacting negatively on their career prospects and pay etc.
Speaking as someone with three children, soon to be four, who's wife works full time as well, I see no reason why anyone would think it would not impact negatively on their career. It would be unfair to people with no children if it did not. I get paid to do a job, what my family circumstances are and how many children I choose to have is my own business and not relevant to the value I add in my job. Obviously give and take is a good idea and Dickensian regimental-ism is not conducive to happy and motivated employees but if I bugger off early and/or come in late or leave work during the day for a few hours then this has a negative impact on my job. I see no reason why this should not be taken into account when assessing employees.
And I generally don't buy the idea that staying for long hours in the office is a good thing. One can work productively in office hours instead of staying late.
If a parent has to leave work early due to an emergency, then no there should not be an impact. If it happens in an unplanned fashion repeatedly, then inevitably it would.
do they speak to you?both are avid Labour supporters,
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Not to use the argument of history...but in my day, the family unit helped out wherever it could. Of course there were emergency situations, but in the main grandparents, aunts, even neighbours stepped in and helped each other out. I'm not even talking that long ago either.
Good post Latrade.
BTW;
do they speak to you?
I think this post; in this thread poses some interesting questions; basically should it be ok for people with children to leave work if a problem arises with a child during the working day without it impacting negatively on their career prospects and pay etc.
Speaking as someone with three children, soon to be four, who's wife works full time as well, I see no reason why anyone would think it would not impact negatively on their career. It would be unfair to people with no children if it did not. I get paid to do a job, what my family circumstances are and how many children I choose to have is my own business and not relevant to the value I add in my job. Obviously give and take is a good idea and Dickensian regimental-ism is not conducive to happy and motivated employees but if I bugger off early and/or come in late or leave work during the day for a few hours then this has a negative impact on my job. I see no reason why this should not be taken into account when assessing employees.
I agree that there has to be a certain amount of flexibility and give and take in any workplace. Everyone -not just mothers of young children - will occasionally have a crisis at home or an unexpected event which causes them to have to rush off early. I think the problem is that some mothers are tarring all mothers by taking advantage of this flexibility to an unfair degree and really annoying their colleagues. I mean the working mothers who assume that colleagues without children should always be the ones to stay late, travel long distances to meetings, provide cover for bank holiday weekends etc. Most mothers I have worked with don't behave like this, but the ones who do leave a strong impression and can sometimes cause people to start giving out about 'bloody working mothers' as if they're all the same.
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