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Rectify the lifestyle/expenditure issues that led to you running up so much debt - you seem to have c. €45K of basically unsecured non mortgage debt which is quite a lot - how did this happen?
Not really sure how it all happened, it is just an accumulation of 7 years living together sincewe bought the house/got married. We tried to consolidate before, we got a top up of 10K and then 15K (these are rolled into the o/s mortgage balance as it stands) and cleared some of it off Credit union (balance was 27K now 18K) and cleared a third credit card also. But since we had kids we just don't know where the money is going.
Well the borrowed money is going somewhere and it should not be that difficult to find out where. There are two major issues here (a) dealing with your existing debt and (b) addressing the underlying issues landing you in such debt. You need to do both. The suggestions above (e.g. spending diary etc.) and similar tips in the key posts etc. are very relevant.I honestly don't know where the overspend is happening as I try to stick to a tight shopping budget
- Maybe rolling some of the unsecured debt onto the mortgage (ideally paying it off over a similar term to the original unsecured loans - i.e. years rather than decades) might be an option as a once off approach to regaining control of your finances - but not if you are going to rack up a similar amount of unsecured debt having consolidated in this way.
Now that I do I agree with the following:We tried to consolidate before, we got a top up of 10K and then 15K (these are rolled into the o/s mortgage balance as it stands) and cleared some of it off Credit union (balance was 27K now 18K) and cleared a third credit card also. But since we had kids we just don't know where the money is going.
It looks like getting into debt and living off credit has become habitual - you need to identify the causes (i.e. where the money is going) and break the habit and start living within your means.At the outset, it would appear that adding 60K to your mortgage would be the easiest way to dig yourself out of this hole- but, in your case, I would advise against it for 2 reasons: firstly, you re-mortgaged before, didn't change your spending habits and are back to square one now; secondly, until you manage to live BELOW your means it will be only a fire-fighting exercise.
Also, in conjunction with this, try to sit down and analyse where the money has been going - e.g. look at annualised household bills and other expenses and then estimate the average monthly outgoings on each. Aim to draw up a budget allowing you to deal with your debts and live within your means. As already mentioned there are lots of existing links and tips in the key posts section.Thank you to everyone who has replied. A spending diary is a great idea, it's something we have never done.
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