I've come on here to ask for information if anyone can advise
I bought a house in Ireland 10 years ago. Myself and my wife paid the mortgage for the first 7 years. Then we had trouble with work and making ends meet. She is foreign and decided to up sticks and leave. I was the only signatory on the mortgage so when our relationship was under strain there was nothing stopping her. As a result I went through a difficult time and was unable to deal with the stress. I stopped paying the mortgage after a few months of paying what I could. I was self employed so had no redundancy etc.
Eventually I fled the country myself as I just couldnt cope with it all. I spent 3 years living far away and surviving on odd jobs. Finally I started to get my life back together. I'm now at a stage where I feel financially and mentally capable of dealing with the situation and while I still live abroad I still feel obliged to engage with my mortgage.
I contacted the mortgage company before christmas (KBC) and explained I would like to arrange to re start my payments if possible. There are obviously arrears etc. Right now the mortgage is 350K and the property is valued at 220. The house was empty for half the time as I needed to do repairs but has been rented now for 8 months. rent is 850 and mortgage is 1480
KBC told me they were issuing repossession proceedings and I think they mentioned a surrender order?
But they said while they would not put anything in writing they would hold off if full payments start in January. They said they would need to see full payments for 6 months before considering a new arrangement. I understand this but have since heard they are probably only trying to get a lump sum from me before repossessing anyway. This has me very worried obviously as while I want to reengage I am not making that much these days. If its inevitable the house is gone then I'd rather avoid throwing more away.
I was told about New Beginnings but also heard bad things about them. I am due to go back abroad in a couple of weeks and would like to finally sort this. I want to pay but can the bank be trusted to re capitalise the mortgage after the 6 months or am I wasting my time and money flogging a dead horse.
appreciate any advice I can get on here.
thanks
I bought a house in Ireland 10 years ago. Myself and my wife paid the mortgage for the first 7 years. Then we had trouble with work and making ends meet. She is foreign and decided to up sticks and leave. I was the only signatory on the mortgage so when our relationship was under strain there was nothing stopping her. As a result I went through a difficult time and was unable to deal with the stress. I stopped paying the mortgage after a few months of paying what I could. I was self employed so had no redundancy etc.
Eventually I fled the country myself as I just couldnt cope with it all. I spent 3 years living far away and surviving on odd jobs. Finally I started to get my life back together. I'm now at a stage where I feel financially and mentally capable of dealing with the situation and while I still live abroad I still feel obliged to engage with my mortgage.
I contacted the mortgage company before christmas (KBC) and explained I would like to arrange to re start my payments if possible. There are obviously arrears etc. Right now the mortgage is 350K and the property is valued at 220. The house was empty for half the time as I needed to do repairs but has been rented now for 8 months. rent is 850 and mortgage is 1480
KBC told me they were issuing repossession proceedings and I think they mentioned a surrender order?
But they said while they would not put anything in writing they would hold off if full payments start in January. They said they would need to see full payments for 6 months before considering a new arrangement. I understand this but have since heard they are probably only trying to get a lump sum from me before repossessing anyway. This has me very worried obviously as while I want to reengage I am not making that much these days. If its inevitable the house is gone then I'd rather avoid throwing more away.
I was told about New Beginnings but also heard bad things about them. I am due to go back abroad in a couple of weeks and would like to finally sort this. I want to pay but can the bank be trusted to re capitalise the mortgage after the 6 months or am I wasting my time and money flogging a dead horse.
appreciate any advice I can get on here.
thanks