Re: 42 - no pension
By way of encouragement, don't think of it as a pension, think of it as a means of accessing a very generous tax break.
All pension contributions will receive tax relief at your husband's marginal rate of income tax + reflief from 2% PRSI, giving 44% relief in total. Unless he makes very significant contributions from here on, the pension payable will be so low as to not attract income tax / attract very little income tax when it comes into payment.
Psychologically, rather than focussing on any pension income level, he should focus on contributing as much as possible in the knowledge that it is highly tax efficient.
Turns the disadvantage of starting late into an advantage!