If all those who got married at the right age, are so thrilled with their lot why do they feel its ok to ridicule those who are paving their own life path?A lot of the annoyance comes from the attitude of some people who got married/living together at the 'right age' and can't understand someone being single in their 30s.
It is like as if people think that the female of mid 30s actually 'chose' to be single and 'working all hours to pay the full household bills' rather than be in a couple where you have companionship & it is easier to run a house on 2 incomes.
....I had to come right out and tell her that I would prefer to have got married at 27 or 28, and that I would prefer to have children right now. I had to spell it out to her that I did not 'choose' to be completely single until I was nearly 31, and to get married at nearly 34. Also I had to tell her that I would have preferred to have bought a house as part of a couple when I was 28, instead of buying a house alone & having to take in a stranger as a lodger.
Male 60 - Single, no partner
Male 32 - cohabiting
Female 50 - single no partner
Female 43 - single no partner
Female 37 - (ME!!!!) single no partner
Female 26 - single no partner
Here is an actual quote seriously written by an Irish man to a woman about what he really wants to say ..........
"Can I call you? This is because I fancy you and would like to have sex with you, maybe not on the first date, but as soon as possible thereafter. I am not looking for a serious relationship, by which I mean, I have enough of my own problems, and don’t want to share yours. My longest relationship so far is 6 months, but I am only 49, so there is plenty of time yet."
Nelly,
I know of a girl who has a husband & 3 children. She got drunk one night & said that she only married her husband because she thought she couldn't get anyone better & she wanted a home & family!!
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