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Kathleen
Neighbours Overgrown Garden
My neighbours front and back gardens are completely overgrown and the grass has grown to about 3 ft high and covered in weeds. In fact, there is one weed in the centre of the front garden about five foot tall and looks like a tree. My garden is joined to theirs and all that divides us is a couple of hedging plants (not yet grown into hedge).
They own their house but do not maintain it and it looks completly run down (oil all over driveway, etc)
Would I be out of order to suggest that they might get the grass cut? I know it is their house and technically they can do what they want, but it is now gone so bad that I am embarressed to bring visitors to my house because it looks terrible. Even the postman chuckles to himself every morning going past!
I am not that friendly with the neighbours, just know them to say hello to, do not have any problems with them in general but this is driving me potty. We dont have a residents association.
Would I be out of order to have a quiet word?
I am thinking about selling my house and I am sure other people would also be put off by this.
Clubman
Neighbours Overgrown Garden
Er, you don't live next door to me by any chance...? I'll get the shears out tomorrow - promise!
Clubman
Neighbours Overgrown Garden
But seriously ... the best bet might be to try and broach the subject in a reasonable manner directly with your neighbours but if that's not possible or doesn't work then there are litter laws that apply to the maintenance of private property visible from a public area in case that's of any interest to you...
Litter and private property
The owner or occupier of property that can be seen from a public place, is also obliged to keep the property free of litter. This means that any outdoor area on your property visible from a public place must be kept free of litter. Failure to keep your property free of litter can result in a fine or prosecution by your local authority
elderdog
Registered User
Re: Neighbours Overgrown Garden
Might they be getting set aside payments from the EU ?
MissRibena
Registered User
Re: Neighbours Overgrown Garden
Joking aside, I'm pretty sure a garden like this is better for the environment and wildlife than the manicured schemes we tend to go for.
I can understand how it's driving you potty but maybe you should concentrate on chilling out about it. You can't control everything - and it's not as if they are doing any harm or anything wrong. If they decided to clean up their act and install tons of garden ornaments, gnomes etc., this might not be to everyone's taste either. I think the world is gone bonkers on this stuff - my friend lives on an estate where she can only paint her house certain colours!! Personally I believe we interfer in each others lives far too much - live and let live.
Rebecca
collieb
Registered User
Dead right Rebecca,
The Cheek of Kathleen, or anyone else, paying 250k plus for a house and then giving out cos your lazy neighbour devalues it by 5 or 10k compared to other houses on the same estate. its all me, me, me with some people these days.
and please dont say this kind of things doesnt devalue a house - it does. If you were looking at two houses, both at same price, but one looks like george of the junge lives next doow - which would you buy?
and anyway, im sure if Kathleen wanted to live beside a weed infested field, she could bought a house in (offensive remark removed - please refrain from insults)
KAthleen, have loads of symnpathy for you. I would try the word in the ear approach, but if you dont get any joy, wait until they are out for the day, or better still a holiday, and simply cut the damn stuff yourself. At least the front.
MissRibena
Registered User
No need for the sarcasm collie.
I do have sympathy for the problem, I just believe the problem is more hers/yours rather than theirs.
Devaluation of your property is only an issue if you are selling. I'm sure if she was selling, then she could make an arrangement. Otherwise, as far as I'm concerned it's none of her business.
I live with neighbours on all sides of me with houses in varying states of repair but keep my own neat and tidy. I wouldn't ever dream of picking them up on these kinds of things. Maybe they have more important things to worry about than that state of their lawn.
Rebecca
N0elC
Frequent poster
Kathleen, have loads of sympathy for you. I would try the word in the ear approach, but if you don't get any joy, wait until they are out for the day, or better still a holiday, and simply cut the damn stuff yourself. At least the front
I think your best bet might be to offer to cut it for them if they seem reluctant to help out, and then do so every few months, if its still a problem. I can't see that they'd object.
As for cutting it without their permission, or expressly against their wishes, well then you're into the issue of trespass.
elderdog
Registered User
A good place to go looking for an Urban Fox
Or should that be Urbane Fox ?
Marie
Registered User
all depends!
It depends on how you look at things! I was going ballistic a few years ago about the manner in which neighbours on one side of my "postage-stamp-size" garden were planting, and "destroying my fencing" in the process. Got myself in an awful state looking up the law etc.
They have now "let" the house and their rampant planting has burgeoned to the extent the people renting can't even get out there to use the clothes line (so the back door hasn't opened for a year!) What this has meant is the rambling roses have rambled, wild-flowers and grasses have seeded, the ivy has completdely covered their garden shed etc. Far from being a "nuisance" this extends my own garden, is peaceful and and is a haven for wildlife and nesting birds.
I agree with Ms Ribena that there's place for everything. Your neighbour's front garden would be described as a "wildflower meadow" on the trendy gardening programmes. Enjoy!
Kathleen
Overgrown Neighbours Garden
Thanks for the comments.
I dont think I can just chill and get on with it, there was a lot involved for me at the to buy a house in a particular area and do so because I wanted to live there.
I would have bought a cheaper house at the time if the state of repair of the other houses didnt really bother me. I think thats what buying your home is all about. If its not about that, why do people choose to live in better areas than others? Even when people are suggesting on this website about certain areas, the replies have been to go to the area and look at the general state of repair, ardens, grass verges, etc so I do think most people would have an issue about living next door to a tip.
I dont really want to clean their garden myself, I live on my own and have enough to do between work and trying to keep my own area tidy. There are five of them including two burly teenage lads, so surely one of them should clean the area now that schools are out for summer. If it cheeses me off so much I will do it, but only as a last resort.
think I will broach the subject and see how I get on.
Marie
Registered User
overgrown gardens
OK. If you really feel you can't live with it, there ARE Local Authority/Council By-Laws to ensure householders keep the environment in good order and don't cause harassment to others. You could consult your local Council Environmental Department, if your neighbours don't respond to you mentioning that the state of their land is distressing you.
All the best with it.
MissRibena
Registered User
Re: overgrown gardens
Kathleen
I see what you are saying and that might be what you expected, but it's not the way the world works. YOu can buy in the best of areas and find yourself beside a motorway or whatever 10 years down the line. You only have control of your own house. Just a word of caution though ... I'm not a ranting mental neighbour by any stretch of the imagination but if my neighbour called to my door about the state of my house/garden, I think would take offence and would make a point of not changing and would keep a wide berth from them in future and i have to say if someone mowed my lawn for me (as opposed to just being neighbourly and doing me a favour) they could forget it! Just be careful you don't use up valuable neighbourly political capital on such a minor issue.
Rebecca
piggy
Frequent poster
Re: Neighbours Overgrown Garden
I have to say I'm a little surprised at some of the comments here to Kathleen's predicament.
She stated in her original post that "My neighbours front and back gardens are completely overgrown and the grass has grown to about 3 ft high and covered in weeds. In fact, there is one weed in the centre of the front garden about five foot tall and looks like a tree".
Now I'm sorry, but if my neighbours grass was up to 5 foot high I'd be standing at their front door and damn the neighbourly consequences. People need to have a certain level of decency when it comes to looking after their properties. It's very easy to say just chillout about the whole thing but when you're living next door to this it becomes a very different issue.
Kathleen, I wouldn't be afraid of tackling them over this, but perhaps you can find a way to do it that will preserve some sort of relationship with them. All out war is not in anyone's interests. Personally, I'd be inclined to make an anonymous complaint to the council about it. That way, they might do the first job of complaining to them about it on your behalf.
MissRibena
Registered User
Re: Neighbours Overgrown Garden
Piggy
I don't know how you are surprised. Why should you or Kathleen or I have the right to impose our aesthetic judgements on our neighbours?
If it was dirt, noise, smells, light etc., then I would have absolutely no problem with talking to my neighbour. However, the fact that I'm a tidy freak (which I am unfortunately) with a penchent for neat lawns is my problem, not my neighbour's.
This is a fundamentally different issue to a nuisance complaint.
Rebecca
piggy
Frequent poster
Re: Neighbours Overgrown Garden
Neat freak lawns and 5 foot high overgrown ones are two different things. I'd feel exactly the same as Kathleen.
We all live in close proximity to each other in Dublin so people have an obligation to keep their abodes in reasonable order in my opinion.
These things do drastically affect house prices. It's not fair to say that's only an issue if you're selling. How are you supposed to solve this issue after you've suddenly decided to sell and this has been going on for years?
A family member used to live beside people like this so I saw first hand what a nuisance and eye sore it was. They did sell, and it proved difficult to do so. The neighbours used to keep old bits of wood and scrap metal in their back garden too. It looked like a scrap yard when you looked out from the bedroom window.
zag
Administrator
Re: Neighbours Overgrown Garden
But it's *their* back garden.
Where do we draw the line ? Maybe I hate blinds on windows and maybe the person 2 houses down hates curtains and we both feel that their presence lowers the tone of the area. What if we all started telling the person in the house between us that they can't have blinds *or* curtains because they are affecting house prices in the area ?
What about house colours ? If someone wants to paint their house electric pink it may be visually offensive to some people, but it's *their* house.
I agree that it may look poor, but I don't think there is any inherent duty on house owners to be tastefull and fit in with the rest of the road. It's nice to conform, sure, but there is nothing inherently wrong with a wild garden.
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piggy
Frequent poster
Re: Neighbours Overgrown Garden
It's nice to conform, sure, but there is nothing inherently wrong with a wild garden.
There is if it lowers the price of surrounding houses significantly.
Blinds and curtains would not fall under the area of acceptable decorum in my opinion.
Tommy
Moderator
Re: Neighbours Overgrown Garden
There is if it lowers the price of surrounding houses significantly
House price valuations are, by their nature, subjective - until and unless a property is sold. You are hardly likely to receive much sympathy from the Council or anyone else if this is the sole basis of your complaint.
MissRibena
Registered User
Re: Neighbours Overgrown Garden
But that's only your opinion, piggy. Who makes you the arbiter of taste; blinds/curtains ok, long grass is not?
A bright pink house next door could equally reduce the price someone is willing to offer when it comes to a sale. I might offer more for a house with blinds than curtains if that is what i prefer. I might offer more for a house that doesn't have a landscaped garden, preferring to put my own stamp on a place. You do not have a "right" to your house price when it goes on the market.
In any case, is your house not your home before it is an investment and are you neighbours not your community? Kathleen only knows her neighbours to say hello to but feels she can comment on the height of their lawn! She doesn't know if there is some reason for it but just assumes they cannot be bothered (which is their right anyway, IMHO). However, there's nothing to say that there isn't another reason like; not enough money to fix the lawnmower, a tragedy in the family, marital problems, run ragged commuting half-way across the country... there are tons of reasons they may not have got around to it. Getting to know the people seems to come way behind their conformance to a particular idea of what constitutes a nice garden/area. An idea that there appears to be consensus on but IMHO the consensus only exists because most people are so busy keeping up with the Joneses being sheep or are afraid what their judgemental neighbours might say if they are seen to "let their place go". Get a grip I say, there is ten times more to life than the state of your neighbour's lawn or the potential price your house *might* fetch *if* you were selling it. I reckon if that's all you have to worry about, then count yourself lucky and go and find something more useful to do with your spare mental energies.
And as for measuring someone's "decency" by the state of their lawn ... it has to be one of the most depressing comments I've seen here in a while.
Rebecca
piggy
Frequent poster
Re: Neighbours Overgrown Garden
But that's only your opinion, piggy. Who makes you the arbiter of taste; blinds/curtains ok, long grass is not?
You're right...much like everyone elses, it's just my opinion.
MissRibena
Registered User
Re: Neighbours Overgrown Garden
Exactly, so what gives you the right to impose your opinion on your neighbour who may be of a different (but equal) opinion?
Rebecca
piggy
Frequent poster
Re: Neighbours Overgrown Garden
so what gives you the right to impose your opinion on your neighbour who may be of a different (but equal) opinion?
First of all, I'm not imposing my opinion on anybody. Secondly, if I was, I'd have the right to request my neighbours to sort their garden out because that'd be my opinion on the matter, for the reasons I've already outlined.
Do you think that people don't do anything because doing it would be just their opinion??
We simply don't agree on this matter.
MissRibena
Registered User
Re: Neighbours Overgrown Garden
Requesting your neighbours to change their garden to suit your opinion, is imposing your opinion on them, IMHO.
But you are right, we will have to agree to differ on this one.
Rebecca
JSmith
Overgrown Neighbours Garden
I have to say I would agree with Piggys comments.
Blinds, etc, might not be to everybodys taste but it is peoples own personal choices at the end of the day and that is their perogative.
Kathleen said that part of her problem is that apart fromthe overgrown lawn, there is oil etc spilled on the driveway and just left there. so it would appear that it is more than just an overgrown lawn.
This is not an issue of taste. Its an issue of dirt. It costs nothing to be clean. Theres no excuse for filth no matter what the circumstances.
And living shoe box style in Dublin as we all do, a bit of consideration goes a long way (from both sides) I dont think Kathleens neighbours are very considerate, so why should she not broach the subject. I certainly would have no hesitation in doing so.
Failing this, send those two mad women around from Channel 4 - you know the programme "How clean is your house"
Good Luck
Clio
Knocking boundary wall
I am considering building a conservatory. I have a 3 bed semi with an extended kitchen and propose building the conservatory between the kitchen and the boundary wall. I have had a few quotes, all with different views on how the boundary wall should be handled. My preference would be that the wall would be knocked and the supporting wall of the conservatory would act as the new boundary wall (on my side of the boundary, of course!). Pending agreement from the neighbours on knocking the wall does anybody know of any legal ramifications of this - should there be a written agreement rather than verbal? Or, am I better leaving wall as is and building inside it? All advice greatly appreciated.
Clubman
Knocking boundary wall
I presume you know that you will need planning permission for the erection of any permanent structure?
ajapale
Re: Knocking boundary wall
Hi,
you will need planning permission for the erection of any permanent structure
Most local authorities exempt certain small scale developments such as conservatories form planning permission.
Clio,
Have you discussed this with your neighbour, perhaps they would like to do something similar? I have seen situations where a neighbour was not agreeable and the wall was built inside the existing boundary wall
ajapale
Clio
Boundary Wall
Thanks for your reply Ajapale. Yes, you are right about the planning permission - it is not required for small scale developments such as this. I haven't spoken to my neighbour as yet as I wanted to get some info on my options as some of the companies who have quoted me have said they will not touch the boundary wall regardless of whether I have agreement from the neighbours!
Laoise
Boundary wall
If the house is a semi and you propose building to the boundary wall, then it sounds as though you might be closing off any acess to the rear of the house from the front. Unless you have another rear entry to garden, this may have fire acess implications, could contravene building regulations or have insurance implications.
Clubman
Knocking boundary wall
Most local authorities exempt certain small scale developments such as conservatories form planning permission
I stand corrected - sorry!
northie
Re: Knocking boundary wall
Currently in the middle of building works ourselves and one of the things we are doing is extending the kitchen to the boundary wall.
Had a chat with the neighbour about taking down the boundary wall, building our wall on our half of it and rebuilding their half wall with it.
Turns out he was considering a similar job in the next couple of months and has agreed to us taking down the boundary wall and building our foundations and wall directly on the boundary. This in effect means he owns half the wall and foundation and will tie into this with his extension.
He's delighted as now he doesn't pay for one wall and foundation (strictly speaking he should pay for half the costs but we let it go)
It is definitely worth checking out all the pros and cons of this as legally he owns half the wall.
I'm surprised at some of the companies refusing to touch the boundary wall as once you stay to your half of it and rebuild the other half wall there shouldn't be a huge probably, assuming you have agreed everything with your neighbour.
PMU
Registered User
Re: Knocking boundary wall
You will almost certainly have to knock the wall to lay the foundation of the external wall of the conservatory. You will also need your neighbours’ permission if your builder needs to enter their property to excavate the trench for laying the foundation and the foundation may stretch under their land. Your proposal that the wall of the conservatory should be the new boundary wall, but within your side of the boundary is probably the best but you will not be able to overlap their side of the boundary with guttering, etc., i.e. anything that could prevent them from building up to the boundary in the future. Normally, you don’t need planning permission for small extensions but there are conditions, and you can check out here if you are exempt: [broken link removed] It is essential that you confirm this as it will be very difficult to sell your property in the future if any unauthorised change to the building has taken place. Before work starts you should mark the position of the new external wall of the conservatory on the back wall of your house, agree with the neighbour that this will be the location of the external wall, measure and confirm the distance from the side wall of your neighbour’s house to the marked location, photograph it in case of future disputes, and contractually oblige your builder not to build the wall beyond this location.
Clio
Boundary Wall
Thanks to everyone for your replies, you've been really helpful and I now have a clearer picture of how I should proceed.
legend99
Bear in mind that the area under which you are exempt from planning must include the area of what you mentioned is the already extended kitchen....i.e. if that is say 10 square meteres, and the threshold for not needing planning is 20, you can only have a conservatory of 10 square metres. Those are only example figures mind.
Thats to stop people building say 5 extensions of say 19.99 square metres and claiming each is exempt from planning!
SlurrySlump
Your gutter is leaking.
Will the gutter/runoff be on your neighbours side and will you maintain it?