Diziet - I did bring it all up. On the first instance I said to my boss, "eh I don't think its right to ask me that sort of question". but his answer was ah it was off the record, between friends... he knew he shouldnt of asked it.
I also have said several times to many of them in my job, that just because you have a child doesnt mean your career should go out with window. I mean I went to Uni like you did, worked my ass off but now I want a family too..
I suppose these people are not worth bothering with but it's really hard to get a happy medium between home life and work life when you are a Mother. I am constantly feeling guilty for nothing being with my Son all day and then I feel guilty when I am home nursing him and work is falling behind... I suppose thats life, chin up and all that.................
I also have said several times to many of them in my job, that just because you have a child doesnt mean your career should go out with window. I mean I went to Uni like you did, worked my ass off but now I want a family too..
I suppose these people are not worth bothering with but it's really hard to get a happy medium between home life and work life when you are a Mother. I am constantly feeling guilty for nothing being with my Son all day and then I feel guilty when I am home nursing him and work is falling behind... I suppose thats life, chin up and all that.................